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Understanding Your Lady Parts

I found an article online that I felt I needed to share.  I understand that for many women the thought about talking about sex or anything to do with sex is just not one of their favorite things to do.   So if you have questions on this topic.. you can read this in private ;)   Or if your partner is lacking a bit in this area.. let them read it ;)

  • The clitoris is the most sensitive of women’s erogenous zones.
  • There are numerous ways to stimulate the clitoris, including sex toys and oral sex.
  • Sex toys can help you stimulate her clitoris while having intercourse
The vast majority of women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.
If we told you that there was a way to make a woman putty in your hands, would you listen? Guess what, guys: We’ve figured out exactly what it takes to satisfy your woman — in the bedroom at least. You might think that a few kisses and the presentation of your proud erect member might be enough to make her quiver, but you might be missing the most important factor in your, and your woman’s, sexual satisfaction.

Women have so many erogenous zones that it can get a little overwhelming for a guy trying to figure out the magic combination to her satisfaction. You’ve already gotten a play-by-play overview of the most popular — her G-spot — so now it’s time to fully consider the never-fail, go-to spot for her orgasm. It’s time to focus on the most important square inch on her body: her clitoris. Understanding the clitoris is the key to a woman eager to come back for more. Get comfortable and pay attention, here’s everything you need to know when it comes to understanding the clitoris.

about the clitoris

Just in case you need a refresher course, here are the basic facts: Her clitoris is a small bud-like formation that is located slightly above the opening to her vagina, at the top of her inner labia. Clitoris size and shape differs from woman to woman, but it is generally between 1/8 to 3/8 of an inch in size. Her clitoris is the equivalent of your penis; it’s packed with nerve endings and becomes engorged when she’s aroused.

Vital info: The vast majority of women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm — penetration just isn’t always enough on its own. Sounds like a good enough reason to makes its acquaintance, doesn’t it?

how to play with it

Language

Sexual stimulation is largely a cerebral activity for women; turning her on requires attention to her brain, not just her body. Even if you and your woman have yet to venture into talking dirty to each other, rest assured that whispering in her ear about what you plan on doing to her, or how turned on you are, can be enough to get her wanting more. The more aroused you can get her before the clothes come off, the easier your next job will be and this is key to understanding the clitoris.

Fingers

It goes without saying that clean hands and neat fingernails are key if you plan on going exploring, but what you might not realize is that diving in and honing in on her clitoris to start with might not be your best plan of attack. Your fingers are nimble: use them to your advantage. Stroke her thighs on your way and caress the areas on either side of her clitoris, including her labia, before gently making the first contact. A lot of women may find direct pressure uncomfortable, so try aiming just below or just above her clitoris and making small circular movements. Because the clitoris actually extends well into her entire pelvic region, rest assured that her enjoyment will only be enhanced by full manual coverage.

Just a note on pressure: Be sure not to get too rough with her sensitive areas before you get to know what she likes and are clear on your understanding of the clitoris. A light touch will be more successful on most women, and those who need a little more are probably going to get frustrated with your restraint and beg for a harder touch. Sounds like a win-win situation to us.

Understanding the clitoris can be fun and stimulating for you both…

Her battery-powered playthings can definitely help you be in more places at once.

Vibrator

We’re sure you’ve all heard about how your girl’s vibrator can be your best friend. Her battery-powered playthings can definitely help you be in more places at once, which is always a good thing. However, have you thought about ways to ensure clitoral stimulation during intercourse? Lining up your pubic bone to hit her in the right spot can be difficult to figure out and having her “help out” while you penetrate means that she has less hands available to be all over you, so why not try the newest vibrating product to help you both out? Many companies now offer stretchy rings that you can slide onto your member that come with the added bonus of a small knobby protrusion with vibrating capabilities that can ensure an extra boost for her with every thrust.

Lubricants

The focus of a lot of creams and sexual potions usually centers on the tingling effect or the numbing effect, depending on what you’re looking for. While it’s true that lubrication is key to making her experience pleasure rather than discomfort when you tackle her clitoris, it’s best not to get too caught up in the newest, most flavorful or scientifically superior bottle on the shelf. A plain old personal lubricant on its own can be your best friend when it comes to ensuring an optimal experience for your partner. Don’t believe us? Try masturbating with no slippery aid. Enough said.

Mouth

All women appreciate that you’ve decided to get up close and personal — really, they do — and your mouth (and tongue) are your best aids to helping her achieve an earth-shattering orgasm every time. The built-in lubrication and warmth are obvious pros in favor of oral sex, as is your ability to mix up the sensations with your lips and tongue teamwork. If you’re looking to move past the basic flick and swirl and show that you really understand the clitoris, try creating a bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she’s close to orgasm, and gently blowing on it to heighten her sensation and prolong the encounter.

Penis

We don’t want to ignore your favorite sex toy when we’re discussing her orgasm and understanding the clitoris; your penis can get in the game and help out during foreplay to really get her going as well. During intercourse, your member might not get too much face time with her clitoris, so it’s worth taking a bit of time to introduce them — they’re sure to be fast friends. Before sex, why not try having your woman lay on her back with her legs clamped together tightly (on her stomach works too) and slide your member between her legs right where they meet with her pelvis. Moving back and forth in this position lets your penis rub between her labia and, more importantly, directly over her clitoris. Not only does this trick feel great for both of you, it’s sure to heighten your collective arousal and result in possible orgasms for everyone.

no longer so elusive…

Understanding the clitorisis the sign of a man that is invested in his partner and her pleasure, both of which are noble qualities. Even though it seems like a bit of a mystery, there’s nothing to be afraid of, and many things to gain, namely a happy and satisfied woman. And remember, a satisfied woman is going to be more interested in making sure that you’re satisfied too, and you can’t ask for more than that.



Low Calorie Snacks

Sometimes we just have to be naughty and grab that snack that we know we probably shouldn’t have. Well, if you get the urge make sure you keep it simple and low in calories.  Try one of these ~

 

If you’re in the mood for…Chocolate

Hunt’s Snack Pack Sugar-Free Chocolate Pudding
So rich with chocolaty flavor you won’t even miss the sugar. One portable tub provides about 10 percent of your daily calcium needs.

70 cal, 3.5 g fat (2g sat), 15 g carbs, 110 mg sodium, 1 g fiber, <1 g protein

1 cup = 70 calories

 

 

If you’re in the mood for…Chocolate

Skinny Cow Low-Fat Mini Fudge Pop
his frozen treat delivers a long-lasting chocolate fix with minimal caloric damage.

50 cal, 1 g fat (0.5 g sat),10 g carbs, 15 mg sodium, 0 g fiber, 1 g protein

1 pop = 50 calories

 

 

If you’re in the mood for…Salt

Kalamata Olives
Their meaty texture and briny bite are just as satisfying as potato chips, but way better for you: 75 percent of the fat in olives is the heart-healthy monounsaturated kind.

90 cal, 8 g fat (1 g sat), 4 g carbs, 460 mg sodium, 2 g fiber, 1 g protein

10 olives: 90 calories

 

If you’re in the mood for…Salt

Newman’s Own 94% Fat-Free Microwave Popcorn
Chow down! These air-popped kernels have more fiber than a slice of whole-wheat bread, keeping you content.

94 cal, 1 g fat (0 g sat),17 g carbs, 214 mg sodium, 3.5 g fiber, 3 g protein

3 cups: 94 calories

 

 

If you’re in the mood for…Sugar

Ciao Bella Ecuadorian Passion Fruit Sorbet
The exotic (and fat-free!) fruit flavor makes this the perfect way to give in to your sweet tooth without blowing your diet to high heaven.

92 cal, 0 g fat, 22 g carbs, 4 mg sodium, 0 g fiber, 1 g protein

½ cup = 92 calories

 

 

If you’re in the mood for…Sugar

Pepperidge Farm Gingerman Homestyle Cookies
Appease your taste buds with a dose of spicy and sweet.

98 cal, 3 g fat (1.5 g sat), 16 g carbs, 75 mg sodium, 0 g fiber, 1.5 g protein

3 cookies = 98 calories

 

 

If you’re in the mood for…Carbs

Special K Crackers—Italian tomato and herb flavor
With a one-two punch of intense flavor and filling fiber, these bite-size nibbles are super satisfying.

90 cal, 2 g fat (0 g sat), 16 g carbs, 190 mg sodium, 2 g fiber, 2 g protein

1 pack = 90 calories

 

If you’re in the mood for…Carbs

Thomas’ Hearty Grains Double Fiber honey-wheat muffin with 2 tsp Smucker’s sweet orange marmalade
Scarfing starchy snacks usually only whets your appetite for more. Not so with this one. It consists mostly of slower-to-digest complex carbs that will hold you over until your next meal.

93 cal, 0.25 g fat (0 g sat), 17.5 g carbs, 148 mg sodium, 2.5 g fiber, 2.5 g protein

½ muffin = 93 calories

 

~ Women’s Health



Yoga for Better Sex

Have Better Sex with Yoga

Learn how yoga exercises can help you have better sex tonight

From Womens Health Magazine

Sleep on this: You’d have better sex if you were a loose woman. Limbering up with yoga will help you build a strong, supple body — and that leads to a lot more action in the bedroom, says Ellen Barrett, author of Sexy Yoga. “Yoga increases flexibility, which helps you to be free and just go for it in sex,” she says. Here are five more reasons you should hit the mat before you hit the sack.

It Helps You Flow
Yoga increases your overall blood flow, and some positions, such as the eagle pose, direct it straight toward your pelvis. When all that blood rushes to your privates, it literally makes you hot. That heat, combined with a Viagra-like stimulation (as the blood swells your button), heightens your sensitivity and increases desire.
It Makes You Stronger Down Below
Yoga tones and strengthens your entire core — which includes your pelvic floor. “The more you work these muscles, the greater range of motion you have,” says Becky Jeffers, fitness director at the Berman Center for female sexual health and menopause management in Chicago. “This gives you stronger contractions and releases, which can help you experience a more intense orgasm.”

It Breeds Confidence
Quieting your mind and focusing on your breath during a pose help you become more aware of yourself — and your own needs. “When you’re present, you know what you need to feel fulfilled by your partner,” Jeffers says. “You can then translate and communicate this deeper understanding to your partner during sex.” Knowing and expressing your desires will make you feel good — psychologically as well as sexually.

It Eases Pain
For some women, especially runners, hip and thigh tightness can make sex tough, but yoga eases pain by releasing that tension and relaxing your hips. “Tension in your hips can affect how your pelvic floor works,” Jeffers says. One tight muscle can lead to another, making your chances of orgasm remote and your love session about as sexy as a sweaty round on the rowing machine. Relax, and everything gets easier — and better.

It Gives You Mojo
Yoga moves like triangle and seated open-angle pose stimulate your chakras. According to Eastern philosophy, your sex life is governed by these chakras — your body’s energy centers surrounding your spine, in Yoga-speak. “When your chakras are in healthy working order, you’ll find your sexual relations to be vibrant and healthy, too,” Barrett says. Your three “sexiest” chakras are the root chakra (located at your perineum — the area between your pubic bone and anus), the sacral chakra (in the center of your lower abdomen), and the heart chakra (in the center of your chest). Yoga enriches these critical areas with blood and “prana,” the life force, according to Barrett. That promotes openness and decreases sexual inhibition, which make you a more game sex partner and, in turn, a much happier person.



Healthy Breakfast Idea’s

Breakfast can be healthy, fun and yummy!  Take a look at these recipes from Women’s Health.

Serves: 4  | Prep:  10min |Cook: 0min |Total: 10min

Directions

1.
Cut 1 lb strawberries into quarters and divide half among 4 glasses.
2.
Divide 1 cup low fat vanilla yogurt and 3 Tbsp muesli cereal evenly among glasses.
3.
Repeat with remaining berries and additional 1 cup yogurt and 3 Tbsp muesli. Top with sliced berries.
Serves: 1  | Prep:  2min |Cook: 2min |Total: 4min

Directions

1.
Mix the oats, milk, almonds, ginger, honey, and flaxseed in a microwavable bowl. Nuke for 2 minutes. Top with yogurt.
Serves: 8  | Prep:  10min |Cook: 45min |Total: 55min
waffles

Directions

1.
Preheat the oven to 200°F. Coat a baking sheet with cooking spray.
2.
In a large bowl, combine the flour, oats, baking powder, baking soda, and salt.
3.
In a medium bowl, combine the milk, egg whites, brown sugar, and oil. Add to the flour mixture and stir just until blended. Fold in 1 cup of the blueberries.
4.
Coat a nonstick waffle iron with cooking spray. Preheat the iron.
5.
Pour 1/2 cup of the batter onto the center of the iron. Cook for 5 minutes, or until steam no longer escapes from under the waffle-iron lid and the waffle is golden. Place the waffles on the prepared baking sheet and place in the oven to keep warm.
6.
Repeat with the remaining batter to make a total of 8 waffles.
7.
Meanwhile, in a small saucepan over medium heat, combine the remaining 1 cup blueberries, the strawberries, and maple syrup. Cook for 5 minutes, or until the berries are softened and the mixture is hot. Serve with the waffles.
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Recipe Notes

This batter also makes excellent pancakes. To create your own nutritious convenience mix, double or triple the recipe for the dry ingredients and store in an airtight container in a cool cupboard. To make pancakes, measure 2 cups of the dry mix into a bowl and then add the liquid ingredients from the recipe.

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Popsicle Treats ~ Recipes inside ~

It is that time of year where we tend to like cold things :)
Yup.. a nice popsicle always makes me feel like a kid again and
cools me off when I am over heated.
But most popsicles you buy are loaded with sugar!  I don’t want that!!

Take a look at these cool recipes from Women’s Health ~
Not all are “good for you” recipes.. but thought I would share anyway :)

 

 

 

 

Thai Iced Coffee
Antioxidant-packed java may help ward off diabetes and some forms of cancer–and keep your mind sharp. Adding cardamom to the grinds while brewing gives this cool dessert a spicy kick.

1/4 cup sugar
1/4 cup water
1/4 tsp almond extract

1 cup strongly brewed coffee, cooled (prepared with 1/2 tsp ground cardamom added to coffee grinds)
2 Tbsp half-and-half

Boil sugar and water in saucepan, stirring until sugar is dissolved. Remove from heat and add almond extract. Combine syrup with remaining ingredients. Distribute into ice-pop molds, add sticks, and freeze for 8 hours.

Per serving: 70 cal, 1 g fat (<1 g sat), 14 g carbs, 10 mg sodium, 0 g fiber, 0 g protein

 

Melon Stripe
Low-cal melon gets some extra sweetness from honey. And while achieving the desired stripe effect takes a little patience, your friends and family will be awed by the outcome.

1 cup cantaloupe, diced
2 Tbsp lime juice, divided
2 tsp honey, divided
1 cup honeydew, diced

In blender, combine cantaloupe with 1 tablespoon lime juice and 1 teaspoon honey.

Fill a fourth of each ice-pop mold with a layer of cantaloupe and put in the freezer for 1 hour. Set remaining mixture aside. In blender, combine honeydew with remaining lime juice and honey. After cantaloupe layer has set, add a layer of honeydew. Freeze for 1 hour. Add one additional layer of cantaloupe and then honeydew, allowing pops to set in the freezer for 1 hour between each layer. After pouring the final layer, insert sticks and freeze for another 4 hours.

Per serving: 40 cal, 0 g fat, 11 g carbs, 15 mg sodium, 1 g fiber, 1 g protein

 

Pomegranate Swirl
These pleasingly tart frozen treats manage to pack three whole grams of protein into a 50-calorie serving. Plus, yogurt is full of bone-building calcium.

8 oz pomegranate juice
1/2 cup plain 2% Greek yogurt

Fill two-thirds of each ice-pop mold with pomegranate juice. Add enough yogurt to fill the molds to the top, about 2 tablespoons per mold. Slide a knife or chopstick into each mold and swirl until a pattern forms. Insert sticks and freeze for about 8 hours.

Per serving: 50 cal, 1 g fat (0 g sat), 10 g carbs, 15 mg sodium, 0 g fiber, 3 g protein

Blood Orange & Cream
This artisanal spin on the ice-cream-truck classic delivers both fiber and protein, thanks to the fruit-and-dairy combo.

1 small blood orange, peeled and segmented
1/4 cup sugar
1/4 cup water
1/4 tsp vanilla extract
3/4 cup orange juice
1/4 cup 1% milk

Cut orange slices lengthwise into 1/4-inch-thick slices. Boil sugar and water in saucepan, stirring until sugar is dissolved. Reduce heat to simmer, add orange pieces, and cook for 1 minute. Remove from heat and add vanilla. Combine blood orange–sugar syrup (including orange slices), orange juice, and milk in a bowl. Pour mixture into ice-pop molds, insert sticks, and freeze for about 8 hours.

Per serving: 100 cal, 0 g fat, 23 g carbs, 10 mg sodium, 1 g fiber, 1 g protein

 

Blueberry-Lavender Lemonade
Blueberries, especially the wild kind, have among the highest antioxidant count of any berry. And pairing them with an aromatic floral herb like lavender gives these pops a decidedly summery flavor.

1/4 cup sugar
1 tsp culinary lavender
1 1/4 cups water, divided
3 Tbsp lemon juice (or juice of 1 to 1 1/2 lemons)
1/2 cup blueberries, fresh or frozen

Bring sugar, lavender, and 1/4 cup water to boil in saucepan, stirring until sugar is dissolved. Remove from heat and steep for at least 30 minutes. Combine remaining water with lemon juice. Strain lavender from sugar syrup, add syrup to lemon water, and mix well. Evenly distribute into ice-pop molds, filling each about three-quarters full. Drop several blueberries into each mold, until the liquid reaches the top. Insert sticks and freeze for about 8 hours.

Per serving: 60 cal, 0 g fat, 16 g carbs, 0 mg sodium, 0 g fiber, 0 g protein

 

Strawberry-Balsamic-Basil
Vinegar punches up the flavor without adding fat, while the hefty helping of strawberries loads these icy treats with all the vitamin C you need in a day.

3 cups fresh hulled or thawed frozen strawberries, divided
2 Tbsp chopped basil, divided
2 Tbsp sugar
2 Tbsp balsamic vinegar

Place 2 cups of whole strawberries in a glass or plastic bowl with 1 tablespoon basil. Top with sugar and balsamic vinegar. Toss and let marinate for 1 hour. Slice remaining strawberries and set aside. In blender, puree strawberry-vinegar mixture until smooth. Add strawberry slices and remaining basil. Mix well and pour into ice-pop molds. Insert sticks and freeze for about 8 hours.

Per serving: 70 cal, 0 g fat, 16 g carbs, 0 mg sodium, 2 g fiber, 1 g protein

All of the recipes use 3.5-ounce molds and make four treats.

 



17 Health Benefits of SEX

SEX ~ Is one of those things some love, some hate, some do and some don’t.  No matter what.. I found this a very interesting article from Women’s Health Magazine.

 

 

1: HIS HEART
Shag your guy’s ticker into shape. According
to a study at Queens University
in Belfast, men who have sex three or
more times a week can cut their risk of
heart attack in half. According to that
same study, regular romps will also
halve your man’s chances of suffering a
stroke.
2: Weight Loss
Work off that Rice Krispies Treat
without hitting the treadmill. One
30-minute roll in the hay burns about
200 calories.
3: IMMUNITY
Kick colds to the curb. Researchers at
Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found
that having sex once or twice a week
boosts the immune system by 30 percent.
4: RELAXATION
Curb irritability. “Tactile stimulation
soothes nerves,” says Evelyn Resh,
M.P.H., certified nurse midwife and director
of health services at Canyon Ranch
spa in Lenox, Massachusetts.
5: SLEEP
Get more z’s. A little sensual massage
followed by some dancing in the sheets
releases sleep-inducing endorphins.
6: PEE CONTROL
Watch a Lost DVD marathon without
constant bathroom breaks. Sex tones the
pelvic muscles that support your uterus,
bladder, and bowel, meaning better pee
control.
7: LETTING GO
Express some of your more risqué emotions
and behaviors—aggression, domination—
in the comfort of your own bed.
(Can you say S&M?)
8: STRESS RELIEF
Seriously pissed? Instead of screaming
your head off, save your voice and have
sex. It’s a great way to release tension.
9: GET MORE SEX LATER
Use it or lose it. Says marriage therapist
Michele Weiner Davis, author of The Sex-
Starved Wife: “The more you have sex,
the more likely you’ll be to continue to
produce testosterone, one of the primary
hormones responsible for sexual desire.”
10: HEALTHY TEETH
Protect your pearly whites by stepping up
to the mic. Semen contains zinc, calcium,
and other minerals proven to fight tooth
decay. (Only trace amounts, but who’s
counting?)
11: PAIN RELIEF
No pain, all gain. Right after your big O,
you’ll be practically swimming in oxytocin
(we’re talking a seriously intense
surge).The overload releases endorphins,
which help alleviate pain from arthritis…
and—hallelujah!—menstrual cramps.
12: SLOW AGING
Skip the Botox. In his book, Secrets of
the Superyoung, neurophysiologist David
Weeks, M.D., of Scotland’s Royal Edinburgh
Hospital, writes: “An active sex life
slows the aging process.”
13: REGULAR PERIODS
Aunt Flow, we meet again. Endocrinologists
at Columbia and Stanford
universities
found that women who have sex at
least once a week have more-regular
menstrual cycles than those who do it
once in a blue moon.
14: CONFIDENCE
Feel the power. “When things go well in
the bed and you’re pleasing your partner,”
says San Francisco sex therapist Sandor
Gardos, Ph.D., founder of MyPleasure.
com, “you feel more confident and powerful
in other parts of your life.”
15: CANCER PREVENTION
Give your guy a helping hand. According
to the Journal of the American Medical
Association, the more he ejaculates,
the less likely he is to develop prostate
cancer.
16: HAPPINESS
Sex makes you happier than having
money does, according to a recent study
by the National Bureau of Economic Research.
A marriage that included regular
humping was figured to bring the same
levels of happiness as earning an extra
$100,000 annually.
17: INDUCING LABOR
Sex can trigger the onset of labor when
you’re at term. “Semen contains prostaglandins,”
Resh says. “When they’re
against the cervix, prostaglandins help it
dilate and induce natural labor.”



Tighten those Abs

When you want to sculpt lean, sexy abs, doing crunches is highly overrated. Why? On-your-back moves target just one part of your midsection and leave out the deep-lying muscles that cinch in your waist. This upright abdominal workout, created by Bernardo Coppola, a celebrity personal trainer in L.A., engages all the muscles you need for a bikini-worthy middle–minus the neck strain. You’ll be strengthening your entire core, the dozens of muscles that make up your hips, pelvis, lower back, and abs. And this will improve your posture and ensure you perform everyday tasks, such as lugging heavy grocery bags or running to catch a bus, more efficiently. Complete three or four sets of each exercise as instructed, resting for 30 seconds between sets, two or three times a week. 
 

Move 01

Dumbbell Side Bend

Back
Next

Hold a pair of dumbbells at your sides, arms straight and core engaged. Without twisting your upper body, slowly bend to the left as far as you can, lowering the weight toward your left knee. Pause, then slowly return to an upright position. Repeat, bending to the right side. That’s one rep. Do 10.

Move 01

Standing Core Stabilization

Back
Next

Standing with your feet hip-width apart, use both hands to hold a dumbbell straight out in front of your chest, core engaged. Moving your torso slightly, slowly rotate your arms to the left as far as you can. Pause, then rotate to the right. That’s one rep. Continue for a total of 10 reps.

Move 01

Bow Extension

Back
Next

Hold a dumbbell in both hands above your right shoulder and point your left foot out to the side. In one motion, draw your elbows down to lower the weight as you bend your left knee toward your chest. Reverse the movement to return to start. That’s one rep. Do 10, then switch sides and repeat.

Move 01

Reverse Dumbbell Chop

Back
Next

Bend your knees, rotate your torso, and hold a dumbbell in both hands outside your left thigh. Keeping your arms straight, swing the weight above your right shoulder as you straighten your legs. Reverse the movement to return to start. That’s one rep. Do 10, then switch sides and repeat.

There is no time like the present to get that flat sexy stomach!!  What are you waiting for?

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Push Hard.. You can do it!!

Want to lose pounds fast and spend less time working out? It’s possible—but only if you push your body to its absolute sweat-dripping, out-of-breath max. In other words, up the intensity.
“Our experience of pain is connected to our perception of it,” says Carrie Cheadle, a sport psychology consultant in Petaluma, California.
“If you decide the pain is unbearable, your tolerance for it will be lower than if you think you can handle it.” So give yourself a mental pep talk before you hop on the treadmill. Remind yourself of how strong and capable you are. After all, if women can endure bikini waxes, tattoos, and childbirth, you can survive a full-throttle workout.

Think You Can
The urge to scream uncle during a butt-kicking workout may have more to do with your overprotective brain than your cramping muscles. The traditional school of thought is that fatigue strikes when you’re low on fuel, dehydrated, or overheated. But Timothy Noakes, M.D., a professor of exercise and sports science at the University of Cape Town in South Africa, says that’s not necessarily the case. “Before you even start working out, your brain is figuring out how to pace your body so that you stop exercising long before you have an issue,” he says. Translation: You always have more in the tank than your brain leads you to believe.

While the world’s most hard-driving athletes (think Serena Williams and Dara Torres) know how to ignore that fake-out and get more from their bodies, most of us can’t help but fixate on our achy legs and burning lungs. But if that’s all you think about, your brain can produce a stress response that increases the ache.

“Our experience of pain is connected to our perception of it,” says Carrie Cheadle, a sport psychology consultant in Petaluma, California.

“If you decide the pain is unbearable, your tolerance for it will be lower than if you think you can handle it.” So give yourself a mental pep talk before you hop on the treadmill. Remind yourself of how strong and capable you are. After all, if women can endure bikini waxes, tattoos, and childbirth, you can survive a full-throttle workout.

But what if that bring-it-on attitude turns meek when the hurt sets in? Cheadle reveals ways to cope: Mentally repeat the word smooth with each pedal stroke on a bike or continuously count up to eight during a run (known as rhythmic cognitive behavior), sing a favorite song or go over your grocery list (distraction or dissociation), or remind yourself that this sprint will be over in just 30 more seconds (establishing an end). 


Up the Intensity
Once your head is in the game, it’s time to get moving—and easy elliptical rides won’t cut it. “When it comes to high-intensity effort, you need to be at or above your aerobic threshold,” says certified trainer Stacie Clark, co-owner of Tiger Athletics in Minneapolis. Here’s how to know you’re there: You can say only two words at a time, it takes great mental focus to maintain this effort, and the pace is uncomfortable and not sustainable for more than five minutes at a time. “The goal is to reach that point, hold it, back off and recover, then repeat,” says Clark. Boost the intensity of any cardio routine with these drills from Clark.

Tempos: Warm up for about 10 minutes, then increase your speed until you’re at your threshold. Stay there for three to five minutes, then slow down to recover completely. Repeat five to seven times, then finish with a five-minute cooldown.

Builds: Warm up for about 10 minutes, then speed up for 30 seconds. Walk or jog for 30 seconds. Repeat six to 10 times, then jog at an easy pace for six minutes. Repeat the sequence four to six times, then do a five-minute cooldown.

Go Beyond Cardio
Picking up the pace during spin class isn’t the only way to pump up your routine. Programs such as CrossFit and P90X are intense workouts that have women busting out pushups, lifting barbells, and swinging weights. (And no, these chicks don’t look like bodybuilders.)

There’s a lot to learn from this approach. At CrossFit gyms nationwide, the “workouts of the day” are done in groups and as a competition—either banging out reps as fast as possible or completing as many reps as you can in a given time. Instructors don’t lower the bar for anyone—they make you work your ass off to meet it.

“Some women are intimidated when they see a workout like 50 pullups, pushups, and squats because they assume they can’t do it,” says Alison Jones, a coach at CrossFit Chicago. “But the challenge empowers them. They get a chance to do things they thought were impossible.”

Try this (equipment-free!) 20-minute CrossFit workout. Do as many rounds as you can, taking only five to 10 seconds to rest while moving between exercises: five pushups, 10 body-weight squats, five burpees (squat down, place your hands on the ground, jump back into a pushup position, then reverse the motion to stand), and 10 situps.

Sound intense? Well, that’s the point. “There’s just no way around it: If you’re not uncomfortable, you’re not working hard enough,” says coach and trainer Chris Clark, the other half of the duo that owns Tiger Athletics. “But once you get through that temporary pain, you really get to feel—and see—the rewards of training.”

Thankfully, you don’t need to go all out during every session. In fact, Clark says only 20 percent of your workouts should be high intensity. That means if you exercise five times a week, just one day should be killer. And remember: In less than half an hour, you’ll be done and hitting the shower.

Article from Womens Health Magazine



Push Hard.. You can do it!!

Want to lose pounds fast and spend less time working out? It’s possible—but only if you push your body to its absolute sweat-dripping, out-of-breath max. In other words, up the intensity.
“Our experience of pain is connected to our perception of it,” says Carrie Cheadle, a sport psychology consultant in Petaluma, California.
“If you decide the pain is unbearable, your tolerance for it will be lower than if you think you can handle it.” So give yourself a mental pep talk before you hop on the treadmill. Remind yourself of how strong and capable you are. After all, if women can endure bikini waxes, tattoos, and childbirth, you can survive a full-throttle workout.

Think You Can
The urge to scream uncle during a butt-kicking workout may have more to do with your overprotective brain than your cramping muscles. The traditional school of thought is that fatigue strikes when you’re low on fuel, dehydrated, or overheated. But Timothy Noakes, M.D., a professor of exercise and sports science at the University of Cape Town in South Africa, says that’s not necessarily the case. “Before you even start working out, your brain is figuring out how to pace your body so that you stop exercising long before you have an issue,” he says. Translation: You always have more in the tank than your brain leads you to believe.

While the world’s most hard-driving athletes (think Serena Williams and Dara Torres) know how to ignore that fake-out and get more from their bodies, most of us can’t help but fixate on our achy legs and burning lungs. But if that’s all you think about, your brain can produce a stress response that increases the ache.

“Our experience of pain is connected to our perception of it,” says Carrie Cheadle, a sport psychology consultant in Petaluma, California.

“If you decide the pain is unbearable, your tolerance for it will be lower than if you think you can handle it.” So give yourself a mental pep talk before you hop on the treadmill. Remind yourself of how strong and capable you are. After all, if women can endure bikini waxes, tattoos, and childbirth, you can survive a full-throttle workout.

But what if that bring-it-on attitude turns meek when the hurt sets in? Cheadle reveals ways to cope: Mentally repeat the word smooth with each pedal stroke on a bike or continuously count up to eight during a run (known as rhythmic cognitive behavior), sing a favorite song or go over your grocery list (distraction or dissociation), or remind yourself that this sprint will be over in just 30 more seconds (establishing an end). 


Up the Intensity
Once your head is in the game, it’s time to get moving—and easy elliptical rides won’t cut it. “When it comes to high-intensity effort, you need to be at or above your aerobic threshold,” says certified trainer Stacie Clark, co-owner of Tiger Athletics in Minneapolis. Here’s how to know you’re there: You can say only two words at a time, it takes great mental focus to maintain this effort, and the pace is uncomfortable and not sustainable for more than five minutes at a time. “The goal is to reach that point, hold it, back off and recover, then repeat,” says Clark. Boost the intensity of any cardio routine with these drills from Clark.

Tempos: Warm up for about 10 minutes, then increase your speed until you’re at your threshold. Stay there for three to five minutes, then slow down to recover completely. Repeat five to seven times, then finish with a five-minute cooldown.

Builds: Warm up for about 10 minutes, then speed up for 30 seconds. Walk or jog for 30 seconds. Repeat six to 10 times, then jog at an easy pace for six minutes. Repeat the sequence four to six times, then do a five-minute cooldown.

Go Beyond Cardio
Picking up the pace during spin class isn’t the only way to pump up your routine. Programs such as CrossFit and P90X are intense workouts that have women busting out pushups, lifting barbells, and swinging weights. (And no, these chicks don’t look like bodybuilders.)

There’s a lot to learn from this approach. At CrossFit gyms nationwide, the “workouts of the day” are done in groups and as a competition—either banging out reps as fast as possible or completing as many reps as you can in a given time. Instructors don’t lower the bar for anyone—they make you work your ass off to meet it.

“Some women are intimidated when they see a workout like 50 pullups, pushups, and squats because they assume they can’t do it,” says Alison Jones, a coach at CrossFit Chicago. “But the challenge empowers them. They get a chance to do things they thought were impossible.”

Try this (equipment-free!) 20-minute CrossFit workout. Do as many rounds as you can, taking only five to 10 seconds to rest while moving between exercises: five pushups, 10 body-weight squats, five burpees (squat down, place your hands on the ground, jump back into a pushup position, then reverse the motion to stand), and 10 situps.

Sound intense? Well, that’s the point. “There’s just no way around it: If you’re not uncomfortable, you’re not working hard enough,” says coach and trainer Chris Clark, the other half of the duo that owns Tiger Athletics. “But once you get through that temporary pain, you really get to feel—and see—the rewards of training.”

Thankfully, you don’t need to go all out during every session. In fact, Clark says only 20 percent of your workouts should be high intensity. That means if you exercise five times a week, just one day should be killer. And remember: In less than half an hour, you’ll be done and hitting the shower.

Article from Womens Health Magazine



Have a Coregasm

MOVES TO MAKE YOU COREGASM

The Coregasm Workout

Ab-tightening exercises you’ll want to do behind closed
doors

In the words of one woman: “I don’t care why it happens, but just am happy it does.”

Yep, we said coregasm. It’s an orgasm some women can have when performing certain ab exercises. Experts say that this wacky core-induced climax could be due to a number of factors: the tightening of pelvic muscles, the build up of tension and even nerve impulses. Explanation aside, we figure it’s worth trying.

*NOTE: These ab moves are just suggestions–we can’t guarantee you a coregasm, but these belly-busting moves will definitely help whittle your waist.

After the urban myths recounting women climaxing in the gym found their way to the Men’s Health idea dungeon, you could consider the coregasm a closed case. In no time, the MH staff set to work uncovering the mystery of reaching climax during core fitness training–and just how many women were having this “issue.” Here’s a breakdown of what they found.

What’s a coregasm?

When Men’s Health editor Adam Campbell mentioned the coregasm in his blog, The Fitness Insider, the female feedback was astonishing. Women all over were experiencing this strange (but orgasmic) fitness phenomenon:

“Seems on my third set of 15 reps, if I crank out a few more reps and go to 20, well, yeah, I can have an orgasm!” one wrote about her abs workout. “And no one notices, trust me.”

Another said it worked on a leg-lowering drill: “I have to be lying down and usually put a small towel or pillow under my lower back. I get the best “coregasm” when I lower my feet close to the floor.”

How the heck…?

Victoria Zdrok, Ph.D., a sex therapist and author of The Anatomy of Pleasure, provided scientific insight.

“A lot of women require a buildup of tension in their legs before they can achieve the release of orgasm,” she said. “So, when a woman exercises, the release of endorphins and dopamine, which are necessary for orgasm, combined with the tension in the abs and lower extremities, can cause the clitoral stimulation” that is needed.

Joy Davidson, Ph.D., author of Fearless Sex, offered a fitness angle:

“When that happens, usually it’s women who already have very strong pelvic muscles,” she said. “And when they’re doing certain exercises that are tapping into the deep core or into the quads and inner thighs, what they wind up doing is almost automatically squeezing pelvic muscles in addition.

Davidson speculated that the tightening of core and leg muscles are “triggering the nerve impulses in the pelvic area. It’s a little unusual to get that much response from one squeeze, but if you’re doing multiple reps, you’re squeezing your pelvic muscles over and over again.

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